Have you ever gone into defensive mode after someone criticized you? You remember your walls going up, and all you want to do is shift the focus away from the critical remark. Defensiveness describes ways in which we react towards another person after they criticize us. It’s a coping mechanism that happens after being criticized. As opposed to listening to the criticism, … [Read more...] about How to React to Criticism Without Feeling Defensive
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Why a Mentor is Critical and How to Find One
Success is easier and faster with a mentor. Maybe you want the satisfaction of pursuing your dream alone. Or maybe you’re embarrassed to reach out to a potential mentor or don’t even know where to begin looking. Whether you want to master the piano, create a popular blog, or build a billion-dollar business, a mentor can smooth and expedite the process. Consider … [Read more...] about Why a Mentor is Critical and How to Find One
Why Your Fear of Success is Holding You Back
Fear of success? Fear of failure is something we can all understand, but fear of success? It might sound a little funny, but many people fear success even if they don’t realize it. Success isn’t 100% positive, and there’s a part of you that understands that. Success brings attention, requests for help, and maybe even disappointment. It wouldn't be much fun to achieve your … [Read more...] about Why Your Fear of Success is Holding You Back
Techniques To Handle Criticism
Unless you plan to hide in your house 24/7, you're going to have to deal with criticism. But make no mistake: even if you stay in your house, you're still going to be criticized; you just won't know about it. Criticism is a part of life. Unfortunately, the more significant your accomplishments, the more criticism you'll have to face. Learn to deal with criticism and … [Read more...] about Techniques To Handle Criticism
Dealing Effectively With Criticism at Work
Criticism at work can stimulate professional and personal growth if you know how to deal with it effectively. Here are some guidelines for adopting a positive mindset and responding to feedback from supervisors and colleagues. Taking a Positive View of Criticism 1. Stay relaxed. If you try to appear calm and confident, you're more likely to feel that way. Keeping your … [Read more...] about Dealing Effectively With Criticism at Work